Sex – Dessert Or appetizer in ‘Marriage’

Expired condoms are like nuclear waste: there’s nothing sensible you can do with it.”

Sex – Dessert Or appetizer in ‘Marriage’

The  starter bite for bite, wash the main course down with a bottle of wine, and then all of a sudden…… Sitting  naked on the floor and we whispered  in each other’s ears …feeding each other… although this could lead to round two… in the broom cupboard!

We have our sexual cake “but we don’t really eat it—or we gulp it down in such a manner as to bring on acute indigestion. Remember, dessert is too delicious to miss out on… and you’ll taste its sweetness for a long while to come.

Dessert which tricks our brain into wanting more of life –Dessert which comes which comes with most beautiful relationship….. Marriage isn’t about sex.  Somewhere , Sex is about marriage and Marriage is about relationship.

Sex with someone you are not in love with, can still be pleasurable but doesn’t fulfill the emotional need.

Today, sex is viewed as the main course of a relationships.”

 Then  couple miss the best part of the meal… dessert – SEX

Aside from reproduction, sex is essential for many reasons in any devoted relationship. It is ultimately all about intimacy, the pleasure, and sexual expression, which has many positive intellectual, physical, emotional and social benefits.  Sex is very important in a committed relationship because it maintains a level of intimacy that both people need in order to succeed.It  helps one partner bond with the other partner  creating  a sense of happiness and  maintains that so-called “spark” that is often needed to keep desire going throughout the chaotic life that most couples have with financial responsibilities, social engagements, and child rearing. Otherwise, it can often feel like you are in a roommate–type partnership instead of a marriage. Sex between partners helps to maintain an overall sense of well–being. 

The urge to bond, which is where the desire to cuddle and hold each other comes to play.True  initmacy  through communication is what makes sex great.Sex in a marriage  can deepen and become a richer experience. No matter how many times you have made love to each other, the wonder and awe of mutual attraction can still be there and  is continuous process of discovery.

 “Sometimes not knowing your partner like the inside of your pocket is what will preserve the mystery, curiosity, and interest that truly keeps a bond alive.”

When life becomes busy, and schedules are hectic, plan a  for sexual encounters with one another which might be  undesirable,can be  as exciting too. Flirting throughout the day or specifying a “date for sex” can build anticipation.

At even the unsexiest of times, sex can be essential like an unknown craving for dessert  results from unseen miseries of life.

A great sex life won’t solve the problems in your marriage; however, it will fortify your  desire and commitment to work toward intimacy.

As time progresses in a long relationship, couples disagree more on things than they did before at the start of the relationship. Conflicts due to the difference of opinion become common place, and couples tend to drift apart. Sex then becomes an import activity to make a truce. Sexual intimacy helps couples work through their disagreements more lovingly as they look beyond their differences to find common ground that works for both instead of engaging in a power struggle. It also rekindles lost romance and reminds them of the trust they share even in the middle of their toughest struggles.

It’s a potent force for encouraging reconciliation.


Humans love eating sweets because they actually make us feel better—especially when we’re not guilty about them. Marriage- should not be  a common reason for guilt free sex – but a mission, a mission far bigger than enjoying guilt-free sex.

Sex in marriage is beyond a  Dessert – “ sweetness between two soul ”is a course that concludes marriage .To enjoy this dessert ,marriage need a solid foundation . Simply  put: mutually satisfying sexual intimacy is the natural result of relational and emotional intimacy, intentionally fostered over time  .

Sex is just the icing on the cake but we all strive till that ICE melts inside US.

Sex, as God meant it to be, brings two people closer together. Game of passion that adheres to some rules, and throws others aside. Remember that a meal isn’t half as nice when you sit opposite an empty chair. It is a combination of give and take… of feeding each other and enjoying each bite.

Sex lies at the root of life, and we can never learn to reverence life until we know how to understand sex…..

On the lighter to all the beautiful couple’s out there  … use your energy to believe in ……

Expired condoms are like nuclear waste: there’s nothing sensible you can do with it.”

…………………………………. and enjoy the dessert …..

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